“It has extended my family”
Graham has been a part of the Yew Tree Café since the very beginning, in 2022. Many in our community know him as a volunteer on various projects at Godalming Minster, always ready to help and have a kind word. Here he talks about his volunteering experience at the Café.
How does volunteering fit into your life?
I had no experience of working in a café; I’d done quite a bit of volunteering within the church, but mostly just within that circle. I saw this as an opportunity for me to connect more with the wider community.
Volunteering generally is a big part of my life, and volunteering at the Café is an important part of that. The volunteer team will always try to ‘fill the gaps’ if personal circumstances require time out.
How did you first hear about the Yew Tree Café?
From discussions at my church, now Godalming Minster, while the café was being prepared. One of my fellow band members encouraged me to give it a try. I told her, “I’m not touching that coffee machine; I’ll just come and wash up.”
It didn’t turn out like that!
What do you enjoy most about being here?
The interaction with both the team and our customers, many of whom I’ve known for several years now. There’s something special about serving something that brings people real satisfaction — that “wow” factor.
I love seeing children enjoying the safe space here, whether they’re catching up with friends or spending time with parents or grandparents after school. We really do see all ages, and that’s part of what makes it special.
It’s also rewarding to meet new volunteers and watch them grow in confidence and skills — as I have myself.
What does the Café mean to you personally?
It has extended my family beyond simply people at church, at a time when I had been widowed only a few years. I’ve enjoyed learning new skills and being able to pass some of that on to others.
Is there a moment that has stayed with you?
We had a family who regularly visited with their elderly dog, who had lost the use of his hind legs and was brought in on a small trolley. Not all cafés could accommodate that, but we did.
One day they came in without him, and we shared their sadness at the loss of a loved family member.
What would you say to someone thinking about volunteering?
Give it a try — you have nothing to lose and a whole new experience to gain. Other team members will support you; we all started somewhere.
I’m in my eighth decade…
